Here are a few do's and don'ts of what a locked heart looks like ( this list is by no means all-inclusive). So, what does loyalty in marriage really look like? What does a locked heart look like? Oh, and your eyes and thoughts are locked, too. Your friendships with members of the opposite sex are limited and professional. Your activities and time spent with members of the opposite sex are different.
When your heart is locked, your conversations with members of the opposite sex are different. When your heart is locked, there's no room for anyone else to take their place in any way, shape, or form. The best thing you can do to protect your marriage against an emotional or sexual affair is to keep your heart locked - with your spouse inside. On your wedding day you promised your spouse you would be completely loyal to him or her, and you locked your heart. Remember that affairs - emotional or sexual - will never make you truly happy, especially in the long run. In a world that tells us that affairs are normal (and often celebrated), and that when one relationship gets stale it's time to find something new and exciting, remember that deep and fierce loyalty are at the foundation of a happy and healthy marriage. You committed to being fiercely loyal through thick and thin. You locked your heart - with your spouse inside - and you committed to never allow anyone or anything to take priority over them. You locked your heart when you chose your husband or wife to be your one and only, your best friend, your truest confidant, and your only lover.
One thing that may be easy to forget through the perfectly normal ups and downs of married life is that on your wedding day, you locked your heart. When was the last time you looked at a picture from your wedding day, or thought much about the promises you and your spouse made to each other so long ago (or not so long ago)?
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